A man has shared how his relationship of five years ended after he found out that she was cheating on him.
He caught his babe making arrangements with another guy. He was able to sneak and spy on her while she was chatting on WhatsApp with the guy known as Emeka.
Based on the chat, the guy is aware that she has a boyfriend, but he still sees her in secret whenever she is available.
The boyfriend filmed the moment his babe was chatting with Emeka and she told him the time she would be ready to meet. They discussed about where to link up and the side boyfriend offered to pick her up at the junction.
After seeing that his girlfriend was being unfaithful, he revealed that he had to call it quits with their relationship.
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In other news, a Nigerian digital marketer, Olufemi has advised men to breakup with their woman if she is the type that likes to upload her photos online.
He said that a woman who does that is indirectly passing a message to her boyfriend that she is available to other men, incase he misbehaves.
Femi advised men to cut off commitment the moment they realise their girlfriend loves posting her photos because she is seeking validation and attention of men she wants even while she’s in a relationship.
According to the Influencer, women do not approach or woo men, so the only thing they can do is to position themselves to be approached by men.
In his words; ‘‘If you’re dating a woman who is always uploading her pictures on social media, withdraw your commitment to her because she is indirectly telling you that she is available to other men. Any woman who is always posting pictures of herself on social media is craving the attention of other men. The game for women is to put themselves at a position where men will see them and approach them because women don’t approach. Men are the ones who do the approaching.
Some women will say “ I’m posting the pictures for myself to make myself feel good “ if that’s the case why not hide the pictures where only her sees them ? Or better still keep the pictures in her gallery and go view them whenever she’s doesn’t feel good about herself since the pictures are for her eye only… women enjoy attention generally even from the men they won’t date or give a chance!
They enjoy validation from every angle, now some will come and say “ I get attention however I dress “ just to justify you letting them post pictures online, if she’s single it’s a different ball game, at least she’s putting herself out there, and don’t let her guilt trip you or shame you that it’s because you’re insecure and a secure man wouldn’t mind, all those manipulation tactics is to play with your Ego into letting them do whatever they want, while they restrict you from doing whatever you want, if she’s secure as well she’ll let you sleep with other women since at the end of the day she’s your main chick ! 😂 see how it is when I flip the role ?
The thing is a secure man has boundaries and you either follow his rules or you get kicked back to the streets, it’s actually an insecure man that lets his woman do whatever she wants because he’s scared of loosing her and doesn’t think he can replace her so he lets her behave like she’s single even when she already has his commitment and Mr Bingo will play safe thinking he’s wise unknown to him that he’s been manipulated. Know this and know peace.”