Stop flinging away your glory through ungodly s3x

Dear Mummy Temilolu,

I just read your article about an 18 year old who’s bothered about not having a boyfriend and I must say your words and advice on it are deep and amazing. I’m turning 23 next month and while my friends and loved ones are bothered about the fact that I’ve never been in a relationship and don’t have intentions to be in one until it is time, I’m only bothered about getting admission and focusing on building a better relationship with God.

I’m not against people going into relationships if they feel they are ready but as long as I’m concerned,  it’s not one of my goals or values and so no matter the pressures I get, I won’t fall for it. I remember one saying that I might end up chasing all the men away until no one will be left for me not knowing all the men who take interest in me just want to have sex and I don’t want it. Moreover, Songs of Solomon spoke about “women not stirring love until the time is right” and I can say with all conviction that the time for me to love isn’t ripe. I have plans for myself, I know how much the Lord wants to use me. I know how much my generation and the next to come is depending on me to make right choices and I know how much investments my mentors and spiritual parents are pumping in me with and just one small mistake could spoil it all, so it’s better I don’t stir it at all.

Thanks to your awesome posts ma’am, it helps me know I’m on the right track whenever I read them and it also makes me know that there are amazing mentors out there clapping and cheering us on not to drop the baton of purity and right living irrespective of how we may be tagged or dragged. God bless you for all you do ma.


My precious Ndifreke,

While congratulating you for your resolution, I must say you have missed absolutely nothing not engaging in sex all the while! I can say that at least half of the world has been damaged and derailed by ungodly sex such that even their sense of reasoning and mindset is warped!

Many girls are unfortunately finished even before they’re 21, having the devil take over the reins of their life and drive them to trouble, confusion and slavery. I thank God for your stand and pray for you with all my heart that God will give you speed to catch up with and even overtake those who have long gone ahead of you in Jesus mighty name! I love you my sweet!

My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,

I’d like to ask – if a good number of men took a piece of you, what would be left of you to shine in life? Believe it or not, there’s always an addition and subtraction during every intercourse! Let the truth be told, you may also take it or leave it, the more you engage in sex outside marriage, the more you disintegrate your “original” and fragment yourself! Yes! You can’t imagine what goes into your life from multiple sexual partners your present partner has slept with and in particular WHAT GOES OUT OF YOUR LIFE during and after every intercourse! The transaction during sexual intercourse could be life-altering and life-transforming! It could break you into pieces and destroy your entire existence. Of course, it could also add to you positively! Sexual intercourse is spiritual exchange, spiritual union – (1 Cor.6: 16) THIS IS A SERIOUS MATTER!

Hmm….may you not wake up completely emptied of what should make you shine in life by the time you are 21! Please be patient! Wait, wait, wait till your wedding night! You don’t want to know, least of all experience the horror some of your mother’s mates are going through as a result of ungodly sex with multiple partners! It’s crazy- just like setting your destiny ablaze!!! May God empower you to wait till your wedding night and give you a greater version of your dream man in Jesus name. Please cooperate.

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