Help, at 19 I can’t count my sex partners

Dear ma,

I really love the good job you are doing. God bless you more and reward you here in this world and in the world to come in Jesus Name. I will be 45 this year and a virgin by God’s grace! From an early age, I made up my mind to do things God’s way in my love relationships but all I get has been heartbreaks and disappointments, even from the tongue-speaking Christian brothers that I meet. At times, I feel down when I think of all I have been through in the hands of men. Especially when I remember my biological clock as a woman is ticking fast. I know my redeemer lives and He (God) will never disappoint His own.

….Miss Matesun

Dear ma,

Your message touched me because at 19, I’ve had many boyfriends and had sex countless times and can’t even remember how many guys I’ve slept with! Now that God has shed His light on my self-destructive habit, can He forgive me for defiling myself? All the while ma, I thought I was enjoying; I thought as a teenager if I don’t “flex” now and have fun with guys in my teens, I won’t be able to enjoy my youth! That’s what my friends told me and I listened! To think I don’t even have admission requirements into the university!  I’m really confused, disappointed and ashamed of myself and almost hate myself!

My darling,

Believe me, I wish I could see you, give you a bear hug and squeeze all your pain and regret out of you! I tell you, since you realised your folly and mistakes, God already forgave you! All you need is a major “spiritual overhauling!” This includes deliverance prayers, which can rid all forms of ungodly soul ties, spirits and demons transferred to you by your numerous sexual partners; prayers for the recovery of lost virtues, prayers to arm you from falling back into lust, etc. This is a very serious matter if you want total freedom!

Any carnal person reading this may think I over-flog the consequences of sexual intercourse with multiple sexual partners and outside marriage and say it’s no big deal! Haaa….it’s more than a big deal I tell you! It’s like gambling with one’s precious life and destiny for a few minutes of pleasure when one can actually delay all the fun and have sex every single day with one single person that will make you experience heaven on earth and help you explode into great signs and wonders!  The following steps will help you but please relax! God is in control.

  1. Separate yourself from your promiscuous friends!
  2. Be determined for a complete change of lifestyle and the processing of a brand new you!
  3. Look for a bible-teaching, Holy Ghost-filled, holiness and narrow-way focused church, where you can worship. This is because you’re about to engage in the battle of your life! The stupid, bad devil will never let you off his captivity unless you put up a fight through serious prayers, consecration of your soul and some deliverance sessions to fire you up and cleanse you! You certainly can’t do this on your own!
  4. Please Google my articles on secondary virginity. They would help you a lot because they were inspired by the spirit of God and your aim is to wrestle your soul and body from fleshly lust!
  5. By the time you take the steps above and read those articles, your mind will be rejuvenated and you will be more focused to pursue your destiny to a wonderful manifestation and to study hard to get admission into a higher institution!

Girls…girls…girls…when I say sexual immorality can massacre your destiny, I know what I’m talking about! How can you keep mingling your spirit with spirits and demons residing in total strangers, including the ones your sexual partners have been sleeping with and think all can be well with your destiny with an overload of evil baggage? Or you didn’t know a man pours his spirit, energy and practically his whole life inside you? Hmmm….you don’t even want to know what he takes away from you!

May you not invite darkness into your life! May your flesh not quench the light of God in your life in the name of Jesus! May God empower you to abstain till your wedding night and may you end up with a man that’ll promote your life and treat you like gold in Jesus mighty name!

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